Thursday, April 17, 2014

COWS, wonderful COWS and My Husband Mark's status

This wonderful and happy cow is by Barb Lambrecht who I have known for many many years and she is so talented and knows how to do fun stuff!
This wonderful cow quilt is by Pam Dransfeldt who does amazing quilting and her middle name is "joy" -remember the purple cow? Well she had this stuffed one on the trike as a little kid...very fun!
A row of cows at the Ventura show...great fun-wish I had the individual cows to show you...I taught the cow class there and many of these were made in that class! Such fun!
More cow quilts from Ventura show
My buddies with their cows...very fun...and happy!
Below is a photo of my poor husband who has moon face from so many steroids and other pills he is taking. He was so ill this week as they decided to cut way down on the steroids too fast and he had hallucinations, could not get in or out of bed, could not walk and was so confused about everything but going home to heaven. I thought he was going to. He said "I have a rendevous with Jesus at 2pm today. Later that afternoon he said to my daughter in law, "I was there and already and God never showed up." She said "you still have work to do I guess." He said "nuts." 

He has said some outrageous things and they have been kind of fun. I just hug him and asure him that things will be ok. They up'd his steroids and he is doing so much better though he still has the swelling...but he can walk and he can eat and he can enjoy some thing and think straight. I said today as he was sleeping that my daughter left a wet washcloth on the nightstand and ruined the finish. With his eyes closed he said "get a soft cloth and some mayonaise and it will come out." NOW where in the world did he hear that??? Made me laugh.
We have moved him down to a little tv room we had and turned it into a bedroom on the walk in floor and we took an unfinished bathroom and redid it with a large shower that one of those benches can fit into for showering. What a blessing!
    


Nothing fancy but we are thankful that he has a bathroom that he doesn't have to climb the stairs for. It is all white and no one can believe I chose this. For now and my sanity, this is good. Grey floor is tile and nice to clean.
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This is a hard road but you know our family has never been closer, I have never been more blessed by friends and each day I get to read a comment that is loving and kid and caring. 
Ronda Reece Leal from Texas started a fund for us to pay medical bills (yes we have them) and other things that have come up unexpectedly like car problems etc. And I am going to get a vault for the two of next to my parents and also go and arrange for Mark to be cremated when the time comes. All of this costs money.
It is kind of sad that Cancer (Glioblastoma Multiforme) makes it so you cannot work to make money and it costs money to have it.  I am sad for those that do not have friends.
I was happy to see that certain teachers and lovely students have given to the fund. 118 people in three weeks! You will never know what this has done for us. 
I had never heard of this but will do what I can from now on when people are trying to get funds to help themselves through something like this.
Thank you sincerely for your nice comments, cards, post cards, fun things you say, prayers, and kindness.
Quilter's are fixers and they have certainly blessed both of us.
I read Mark the cards and the comments and I cannot tell you how many times he has cried and me two as I am reading.
As I said to some friends on Facebook, do not feel sorry for me because we both feel that this is in God's plan for us and we are growing closer to Him and I am learning how to be caring and kind in a way that I never thought I could. It honestly is such a honor to help him and love him through this. We have been married 45 years and I have never loved him more than I do now.
This is Easter week and for some of you it was Passover. I pray that this brings you joy, God's blessings and closeness to someone you love or many someone's. 
Count your many blessings as I do. I feel very very lucky.
Love you and thanks for checking in here....

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

A day in my Garden Last Year...such peace and beauty and fun

 This archway is being replaces this year as last year it fell apart from the weight of the hops and trumpet vines on it....soon there will be the same things growing on the newer one
 Wow doesn't love a good sunflower?
 Birdhouses her and there- the squirels lave the little ones alone- the big ones, they gnaw out the hole so they can live in there in the winter...sigh
 I have stopped evr purchasing or trading for bird houses as the squirrels always make thg ood ones fall apart.

 My bottle tree (one of them) with things growing up on it. Now it is bare waiting for the vines to wake up and start covering it...I do love my bottle trees

Friends in my garden!
My cottage garden from a distance
My fountain where quail hide with their babies underneath
My garden now looks like all dirt but later on this year it should look alot like this if I can find the time and energy to work hard at it. We do not have automatic sprinklers so between Mark and I we watered all of the time. Now I will have that all on my shoulders so we will see how much garden I save...it is alot of work and alot of walking and pulling etc. But it is so worth it when you sit in a chair and enjoy the quiet and beauty.A green (HUGE PINE) crashed into our arbour and ruined it so they hauled it off and I am having it replaced with the insurance money. It takes the glare off your head when you sit on the patio and gives shelter. It will be right utside the room that Mark will not be in when we get it fixed up. He can hardly make our stairs now and has NO strength like he used to. He is frustrated if he wants to move something or life. Each day he goes a little more downhil but he always thinks me and the kids and our neighbors and anyone for helping him out. I love him more everyday. I am hoping he can sit outside his new little room on the patio and see the birds and squirrels and hear the water in the fountain.  God's beautiful hand in nature is healing for sure...at least for me. Hope YOU enjoy your lovely garden as well.
Love, Mary Lou
PS, the Go-Fund site has over $6000. which is wonderful and will be going off to pay for medical bills (ONLY) http://www.gofundme.com/7z9m5o  I cannot thank those of you who have given to this fund for us. God bless you.

Saturday, April 5, 2014

Story Quilts, Hospice. My Friend Ronda and Love for Each Other

I am so happy to share this wonderful Story Quilt! This was started in oregon by my friend Jill in a Story Quilt class and she loves to golf, read, garden and loves color and her kitty! She put all of these ideas together with a Flower Power border and Joila! Magic. I want to do one about my Garden as these two friends inspired me to think things that grow and sunshine and being outside and happy. I think the Flowers from my Flower Power book are especially happy! But didn't these two best friends do great? I give them both blue ribbons. Carol An below started a BUG quilt that had her car from many many many years which is a BUG and also beetles-it won first place in the Oregon quilt show and I think the Pacific Northwest show also...it is amazing. Below she did it again with her glass of wine and beautiful flower garden. Notice how she used COOL colors that fall back for her flowers. Wonderful. Bpoth girls chose differentscolor palettes and  both created happy, wonderful quilts about them. Imagine if your Grandmother or great Grandmother or your Aunts did this! These quilts will be saved and studied and cherished. LOVE these!

Below is a photo I took last week of Mark's baby brother, our son our Grandson and Mark...I love this.
So yesterday was a bitter sweet day for both Mark and I and our family and friends. We went to Cancer Care and they basically said that they have done all that they can for his Gioblastoma-Multiforma. It is a horrible thing for anyone to have and he has been through it. :0)
Yesterday he got up and was so weak and slurred his words and he fell four times last week. So, they sent in the Hospice specialist to talk to us about it and the timing of how long they think he might live which is short.
He cried and could not talk though we both knew really and we held hands. He tried to speak and I was trying not to cry and the angel person named Mary who helped us said to him "you are worried about taking care of your family aren't you?" And he sobbed and nodded "yes." She said "that is understandable but your family has a good belief in God and they just want to love and comfort YOU. Then he said, I am not afraid to die because I believe heaven will be amazing and I will get to be with God. Then I said "this is what makes this journey easier." And the girl said "yes." So now we have it on the table. Our three kids came over and we all had memories and my son put my husband to bed and I could hear them talking and crying together. My son came out of the bedroom and said "I feel so much better because I got to tell Dad everything I always wanted to and how amazing and loving he is and how I will always try to be like him and live up to his example. Made us girls cry. But in the end for me who is trying to be the example of strength, it is really quite beautiful to see how our love for our kids and prayers for my friends over the years has come back to bless us. I am sad but I am happy to and can see where your prayers and kindness have come back to bless me.
I have always said that Quilter's are fixers and we always want to fix each others problems. We are the "church" of quilt and we are the believers in each other and love and kindness and other people who are not quilters, are the unbelievers. :0) And my husband always says "yes, but you are more of a cult because once you begin to quilt, we can't get you back!" Haha.
So, a lady named Ronda Reese leal wrote to my daughter about helping us out. We have many medical bills from Mark's surgery, his brain pathologies, and other things from specialists earlier. Now we are trying to get a little tv room made into a bedroom on our main floor and an unfinished bathroom next it it done. Everything has hit and Mark had to quit work on the day he was diagnosed last June. I pay some of these bills with my teaching money and book money. I have had to cancel jobs due to being home with Mark and it has been hard. But honestly God has been faithful and I sold a quilt for a nice sum and Molly helped me sell little ones at Asilomar which helped pay for a new furnace as ours was cracked and leaking carbon monoxide (we didn't know this but it was not working well. ) ANYWAY, sorry about blithering....
Ronda set up a fun to help us out so I can take care of some of these nagging bills. It is such a relief as I have to be the strong one and worryng about Mark AND the bills is alot.
So if you want to even just look at this site, it is loving and wonderful and dear. She has so blessed us.
http://www.gofundme.com/7z9m5o
OK, enough said about that.

Oh a really happy note for me, my Granddaughter Mary (Lou) drew these two drawings for Mark and I to make us happy and it did! LOVE the innocence of kids art! Isn't it wonderful? Tonight my two daughter are coming over to spend the night and watch movies while I cook something and we will just be happy to be together in the home they used to sleep at. It's been a long time. With every sad thing there are always blessings. My family and my wonderful friends have been my happiness and God has made me feel so happy to know so many GOOD people. I still am trying to laugh and count my many blessings and hope you are too.



 Think of kids art as a Story Quilt and I bet you could do something quite wonderful!
Until next time, thank you sincerely for your thoughts and prayers.



Thursday, March 27, 2014

COLOR, Flower Power and MORE Color!

I needed a shot in the arm of color today. It is kind of sad during this time with my husband being sick but we both try hard to count our many blessings. So I turned to thought of color in fabric! Why not?
 Found this great photo of Ann's quilt (she is from Copenhaugen) and I love her European flavor....NICE colors on gray-hint: if the gray is TOO cool, it will slurp up your goodl colors (I call it coloring sucking)-some lavendars (firty) and greens (dirty and greyed) and checkboards do the same thing. beware!
 Love the colors and flower in front of tessuti Zoo in Pacific Grove- my favorite shop!
 Speaking of Pacific Grove, I love these real flowers that are always in bloom in Pacific grove when I teach at Asilomar there. Note: Next year will be my last Story quilt class for at least two years. I am switching to Christmas so if you want to take the story quilt class, sign up in May at Emptyspoolsseminars.com for next year. I will be there the last session and the best time with weather to visit
 Here is a sampler I did of Flower Power samples ...great color and fun- still need to add the buttons to the middle of the flowers and I am going to use perle cotton on the pineapple...fun!

More flowers from in front of tessuti Zoo- so happy, so colorful!
 Above is a sample of a story quilt using some hoochy animals I designed...I am trying to remember the wonderful girl who took my retreat AND asilomar and did this...wonder if she finished it? Awesome

A clock wall at Tessuti Zoo in California...a must see!
And below a green wall with handmade aprins and lovely cups and more clocks and lots of fun....
 Here is a wonderful class I taught in Illinois this past year. These girls rocked at experimenting and having fun. Loved being there!
Flowers where I live also! and a little house somewhere that I want to live in. PLEASE.
I want to buy this little house when I win the lotto (in Pacific Grove- though I told friends I wold buy a huge place so we could all have slumber parties there. Right now I could not afford a trailer there...Haha
The quilt below is by my friend Linda Pederson who I think is exceptional with COLOR and applique skills...I envy her talents!

Below is just a portion of my John C. Campbell quilt. I hope to have it done the end of this year...it is really fun.
 The quilt below is from a Spokane retreat girl named Jennine...she goes by J-9 -love her Flower Power style!

 These fish were from one of my block swaps...pretty fun fish I would say, my favorite is on the lower right
 Sandi from Canada is working on this qilt...love the colors and the fun!
Below are students samples of birds, hearts and hoochy blocks...pretty and fun!
Below is J-9's quilt again...love it
Hope you enjoyed a little vacation of color and fun. Color can take me on a vacation any day and when it is used in quilts in fun ways, I am extra blessed. Hope you are too!
   Here is a link to Anna's blog who has a nice little snippet of the Asilomar week I attended. I look drug out for sure but have a good reason for it. I had FUN and positive girls in my workshops ad that made my week great! Plus selling that large quilt to Del Thomas for her quilt collection. Blessings are nice when you appreciate them! Have a colorful week, friend!
http://wooliemammoth.blogspot.com/2014/03/empty-spools-seminar-next-chapter.html?